Words by Rosemary Bird
Bethany in Transition 18 years ago

An assistant from the congregation could make calls at another day of the week and solve this problem.

Secretarial assistance would also be a help, thus leaving the minister more time for calling.

Concerning this visiting, I know of one instance where a complaint of an older person about no visit was erroneous; Mr. Ingleby had been in two weeks before but to a shut-in I guess it looked like months or perhaps they had just forgotten.

When we interviewed Rev. Mark Waugh we asked what he would expect of his congregation.

His answer was very similar to what Ralph later told us.

He would hope for co-operation both in worship services with perhaps some consultation about the content, some volunteer lay readers, also some assistance from his parishioners in the visiting.

He would also feel the need of some secretarial assistance and this will be provided.

Applications will likely be made for the position after he comes.

He will expect his 5 Sundays – or one month of holidays and be able to use the proffered 3 weeks study leave as needed.

This is the usual provision recommended by Presbytery.

Perhaps if we recognize this to be the usual thing nowadays with participation of congregation members the expected norm, we can be prepared to give Mark the encouragement which will make him feel we appreciate his coming to our charge.

As we can read in the Observer, and as I have learned from workshops and other church services, we are encouraged to open our minds to try new ideas.

  One of the most pleasant services I attended this spring included much congregation participation.

It began with a hymn sing such as we had this morning.

Perhaps this would be helpful to learning some of the more unfamiliar tunes in the red book that have caused some difficulties.

I attended a service Easter week in which a retired lady minister, who is considered somewhat over the hill, presented a beautiful program with herself as Mother Mary reflecting over her life with her son Jesus, with church members acting in pantomime, the different events from Jesus’ birth to his crucifixion and glorious resurrection.

It was very touching; and during the communion service that followed, she has us go to the front in groups where we were served communion, blessed, and told to Go In Peace.

After the adults, she called the children up also in groups, and making sure she knew the name of each one, she gave that child a personal blessing with her hands on the child’s head.

After our study on the Christian Initiation Report, it seemed that perfect bridge between baptism and confirmation.

Apparently Anglicans do this; and of course we know Catholics go to the front of the church to take communion.

I have taken communion at service where everyone walked up one aisle, got their piece of bread from one person, dipped it in wine held by another, and returned to their seat.

I was told this was done at one church on Christmas Eve where many of the members were quite unwilling, but the minister insisted so that no one would have the chore of washing 300 communion glasses on Christmas.

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